Life's BIG BIG lessons...

"Grief melts away, like snow in may, as if there were no such cold thing.."

My fiancee's favorite quote.. Indeed true..

Everything will come to past, happy or sad memories. But at the end of the day, how you survived that moment is what really matters.

I remember the preaching i heard from one of my favorite pastor he said: "Wise people, learns from his mistake, but wiser learns from others mistake". Sometimes we are so stubborn that we want to experience being broken for us to believe. We want to play fire even we already know the danger of playing with it.

What is the biggest mistake you've made so far? Maybe you won't remember anything, you know why? just like the quote says, it melts away, and you will never remember it again. I wonder why many people use to dwell on the "painful" memories instead of the "happy" ones. Sad people often listen to "one last cry" type of music, instead of listening to "joy to the world" type. Those things are the wonders of life. Our Savior Jesus Christ gave us the perfect example on how to deal with life's difficulties, read the whole epistles books and you will find out how Jesus live a perfect, intelligent and loving life here on earth, that even up to His last dying breathe, He cares and prays for every single people even His tormentors. I can still remember Jesus's prayer on the cross, "Father forgive them, for they know not what they are doing".. It's interesting to know that Jesus teachings are to "love your enemies, and pray for those who persecutes you". And by praying those kinds of prayer, Jesus really exemplified His teachings, and what i appreciate about it was, He did it in the worst terrible time of His life on the cross. We Christians use to teach others to do good works, but have we ever taught of doing things we teach? Think about those things......